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TB 24: I’m Frustrated… Why Isn’t It Working?

April 5, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Are you frustrated because you cannot seem to get the law of attraction to work for you? The law of attraction is always working, never falters, and manifestations always match your dominant thoughts. I will clarify why it seems to elude you, and what you can do about it. Press the play icon above to listen.

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Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

I’m Frustrated… Why Isn’t This Working?

Today’s episode is about clarification, and it was inspired by a listener
Several weeks ago, a listener sent me a message to thank me for this podcast
She let me know that, although she always practiced the law of attraction, my podcasts helped her learn how to understand it and apply it better
In an ensuing dialogue, she let me know that the law of attraction has been attracting wonderful results in the areas of health, wealth, and career success… she also let me know that she is ready to meet her soul mate but needs to learn how to apply the law of attraction to relationships
As I read her message, I can identify where her vibration is not congruent with her desire… I’ll review that in just a moment
Before I go into this, I want to point out that the title of this episode begins with “I’m frustrated”… the listener that inspired this episode did not mention whether or not she is frustrated, nor did she ask why it isn’t working
The reason I titled this episode the way I did, is because the subject matter that we are about to review will directly help people who are frustrated as they try to apply the law of attraction without achieving the results they so desire
Getting back to the listener, I’d like to share the message that I received from her earlier this week:

Hi again Scott- I wanted to get some advice from you… I have become aware that my problem is lack and belief specifically for my “husband”. I don’t have this issue of lack and belief in other areas.

I know how to solve lack (I think) and that is to be happy with myself and not dwell on the fact that I don’t have it. I know I have to [be] happy with or without it- do you suggest anything else when it comes to using the law of attraction to attract my husband? And what is it I can do more of to really believe it?

(I am using my vision board as a tool, I end the night and begin the day with what I am grateful for, and I try to daydream and imagine my husband). Maybe I am not doing it enough?

Let me know what you think.

Let’s take a closer look at what she is saying in her letter, and I’ll address each part directly to her.

I have become aware that my problem is lack and belief specifically for my “husband”. I don’t have this issue of lack and belief in other areas.

You are aware that your vibration is one of lack and you are aware that it is most likely caused by your beliefs on the subject. You is on the right track! Specifically, you are aware, and you are working on it.

I know how to solve lack (I think) and that is to be happy with myself and not dwell on the fact that I don’t have it. I know I have to happy with or without it

We don’t solve lack, as your attention to it brings it to you. Furthermore, “not dwelling” is also putting attention on that which you do not desire… we cannot “not dwell” (or exclude) anything in our inclusion based universe… your attention to anything brings it to you, whether you want it or not.

Do you suggest anything else when it comes to using the law of attraction to attract my husband? And what is it I can do more of to really believe it?

It’s good that you recognize you are not quite believing it, and you are seeking ways to move towards that belief.
Believing it is more about believing in the fairy tale.
Try saying “wouldn’t it be nice if_________”.
You will find yourself feeling better, and indication that you have stopped resisting and started attracting your desire.

I am using my vision board as a tool, I end the night and begin the day with what I am grateful for, and I try to daydream and imagine my husband

Let’s dig in here a little too… vision boards are a tool, so make sure you are using it correctly. If not, you are better off not using it at all (or at least for the time being). Vision boards are to be used to help you get into vibrational alignment… if, however, when you look at your board you become aware of what you do not have, then your board is not helping because it is holding you in a pattern of resistance. You will always know if it is helping or hindering by your emotions. If you feel lonely, impatient, or discouraged (or any other negative emotion), then your vision board is not helping because your attention when you look at your vision board is bringing you to a place of lack. But if you feel excited, hopeful, or optimistic (or any other positive emotion), then your vision board is helping you attract your desire.
It is a great habit to end your night and begin your day with thoughts of gratitude. Just be sure that you are feeling positive emotions to be sure your focus is on things you truly are grateful for.
Daydreaming and imagination are also awesome tools for creation and manifestation. Just be aware that there are times where too much detail can hinder your creating. To be clear, generally, the more vivid the detail, the better… as long as it does not induce negative thoughts. It is possible to get so detailed that it may challenge your belief system. Pay attention to your emotions.
The principles of the law of attraction are simple, yet applying them are not always easy… there is a difference between simple and easy
- For example, if someone wanted to lose weight, the formula is simple: eat proper portions, do not eat too late, and exercise daily. Simple yes, but not easy.
- The law of attraction is simple too: whatever you think about and believe will manifest into your experience
The work that we do, and the subject of most of my podcast episodes are about how to become aware of our thoughts, how to direct our thoughts, and how to develop belief
These things can all be accomplished, and once you do, you can and will be, do, or have anything you desire
Some things are easier for us to believe, based on our experiences in life
Some things are easier to focus on
This listener has given us an example of both
For instance, she set out on a path to create her desired level of health and wealth. She made a decision, and she was not bogged down by negative beliefs in these areas, rendering them easier… and she would have known that by her emotions. I gather she was feeling hopeful, or some other positive emotion (whether stronger or weaker) as she tackled her objectives. Her belief was there.
The difference between want and need
In a previous email, she stated:

“I have proven to myself that it [the law of attraction] works, but I need to learn how to now apply it to relationships”

Her choice of words was not an arbitrary accident…
And by the way, there is no difference in how the law of attraction is applied to relationships vs. anything else… it’s 100% consistent, and works the same way for everything
Her vibration on the subject of relationships is one of lack, and the law of attraction is bringing her more of what she is vibrating – lack
There is a huge difference between a “want” and a “need”
Let me give you an example of how important this is
This can apply to anything…
Let’s hypothetically look at two people who set out to learn to play guitar
Person 1 decides to learn to play guitar and can see himself on stage entertaining people
Person 2 decides to learn to play guitar because it’s “cool” to be a guitar player
Person 1 wants to play guitar, where person 2 needs to play… please don’t pick apart my choice of example here, you may be thinking that person 2 doesn’t need to play, but when you look deeper, the need to play may actually be the need for validation or acceptance… there’s no real desire to play guitar
Can you see the difference between the vibrations (the point of attraction) of these two people?
Person 1 wants to read guitar magazines, go to music stores, and practice playing
Person 2 has no desire for any of these things, not eve even to practice… it’s more of a chore
The difference is the excitement in the journey
An unhappy journey cannot lead to a happy end… you must enjoy the process
Person 1 wants to learn guitar and can already see himself as an entertainer
Person 2 wants only to be recognized as a guitar player
Can you imagine if Pablo Picasso did not want to paint, but only wanted to recognized as a painter?
People who are successful in their field have a driving passion
They love what they are doing… sure, they also enjoy the fruits of their passion
When your desire comes from within, everything begins to fall into place easily and begins to manifest quickly
If you are not feeling the passion, you’ll need to work on your belief (yes, there are things you can do to get there)
If you want to be rich, but you have no desire to go through the process of building a career or business, you are just not likely to get there
If you want to be healthy, but you have no desire to take those actions, then you are not likely to get there
If you want to be in a happy relationship, but you have no desire to happy first, then you are not likely to get there
To help your belief and desire grow, think about the pleasures and joys of living your dream… work on that vibration
When you begin to believe it, then you will become inspired… you will really begin to enjoy the thought of becoming!
If you have been wanting to be a great cook, by focusing your thoughts on what that feels like, and getting into alignment, you will soon be inspired to learn to cook and take course, and actually enjoy the process (the journey)

Questions, Comments?

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TB 21: How Do I Get Into Alignment?

January 11, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Vibrational alignment is the key to deliberate manifestation. This episode was inspired by a question from a listener. In it, I explain what alignment means, how to get aligned, and how to tell when you are aligned. Being in alignment is the key to manifesting anything you desire to be, do, or have. Press the play icon above.

If you have a question, please leave a comment below and let’s get it answered quickly. If you found this episode resonates with you, please share and leave comments… it would mean the world to me. Thank you.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

How Do I Get Into Alignment?

I received a question from a listener, and I’m going to read it to you:

Hi, I want to know how exactly to get my vibration into alignment, I seem to like to keep others happy before myself and put their needs first. Rather than hurt others, I hurt inside myself. Help me.

She is asking one question: How do I get into alignment?
But she is also indirectly asking another: How to I stop hurting myself as I help others?
I will address both, let’s start with “how to get into alignment”

What Is Alignment?

Define alignment…
- Getting into alignment is not some sort of arbitrary balance
- It is specific and simple to do, once you understand who you are
- You are eternal consciousness that can never cease to be
- You exist in the non-physical right now… it’s the greater part of you
- What you know as you is an extension of who you are
- Your existence, your thinking, and your knowing is happening in the non-physical at the same time
- Getting into alignment is thinking in your physical form along the same lines as you are thinking in your non-physical form
- Getting into alignment means getting into alignment with yourself
So how do we do that?
- It’s based on what you are thinking
- Our emotions are our guidance
- Feeling good = alignment
- Feeling bad = out of alignment (resistance)
Be careful because every subject is really two subjects
- Take notice whether you are thinking about your desire or the lack of your desire
- For example, thinking “I want to be slim” vibrates very differently from “I don’t want to be fat”
- There is no exclusion in our inclusion based universe, your attention to anything will bring the essence of it to you
- Thinking “I want to be slim” will bring you a slim body… thinking “I don’t want to be fat” will keep you fat
- How do you know if your thought is on your desire or the lack of your desire? You will feel it in the form of emotion.
Dominant thoughts win: What are you predominantly thinking about?
The law of attraction is simple
- You get what you think about, whether you want it or not
- Thoughts are vibrations
- Like vibrations are attracted to one another
- Events and circumstances begin to unfold to manifest the essence of your thoughts
- You get what you think about, whether you want it or not
The law of attraction is a simple process, but learning to direct your thoughts takes practice like anything else
Belief is the secret sauce
If you don’t believe in what you want, you must find a way to focus your thoughts until you believe them
Once you believe, you will see manifestation begin

Here are Some Tips to Help You Align

You must figure out how to think about what you want, instead of what is
Be aware… are you thinking about your desire, or the lack of your desire?
Think about things you like and enjoy from your past, or how you would prefer it to be
Dream, dream, dream!
Be eager (like a kid)

The Second Question

I’m now going to address her second concern… let me reread that part:

I seem to like to keep others happy before myself and put their needs first. Rather than hurt others, I hurt inside myself. Help me.

She is asking how to stop hurting herself while attempting to help others
We are going to apply what we just talked about regarding alignment
When you are in alignment, you will attract others who are in alignment and influence those who are not
We have all experienced this… we are drawn to happy confident people (in alignment) and avoid those who are grumpy (out of alignment)
You have nothing to offer another human being if you are not in alignment… nobody is going to take advice from that grumpy guy, or even want to hang out with him
When you try to help another when you are not in alignment, you cannot help them, and because you are focusing on their needs instead of your own, you cannot help yourself either… that’s why you hurt inside when you put their needs first
It may seem selfish, but you can only help others when you are first in alignment
Tend to your own vibrational needs – get happy on the subject – then you can influence others through the example of your joy
Remember, like anything else, this will take practice
I promise you, it works… you are not going to become a proficient tennis player the first time you get out onto the court, and in like manner, you will need to practice your deliberate thoughts to get into alignment

Follow up work

I read many books on the subject strengthening my knowledge, understanding, and ultimately my results of the law of attraction
I feel compelled to share it with you, and that’s what this podcast and my blog are all about.
I’d like to share one of the most influential books (for me) with you that can address the subject of alignment much better than I ever could
It’s called “Ask, And it is Given” by Jerry and Esther Hicks
All of their publications are amazing, but I would start with that one
You can find it at ThinkBlissful.com/hicks

In Summary

How to get into alignment starts with understanding what alignment means
We are aligned when the thoughts we are thinking about any given subject are the same as the thoughts of our non-physical inner being. At every moment, we are being guided by our inner being through our emotions.
We know we are aligned when we feel good, and out of alignment when we feel bad
Our emotions are important indicators, that’s why we have them
The law of attraction is simple: you get what you think about, whether you want it or not
Your belief is the secret sauce (think and believe)
To help others, you must first get into alignment (be/get happy)
You may want to read “Ask and It Is Given”, which you can find at ThinkBlissful.com/hicks
Don’t be afraid to dream!

Questions, Comments?

How are you doing on your journey?
Let me know what your questions are
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The Most Important Thing Is That You Feel Good

June 29, 2018 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Nothing is more important than feeling good. Do you know why? It’s because your feelings are indicators of your vibration. Specifically, your feelings represent the alignment of how your vibration compares with the vibration of your higher self, your inner being, your source.

You determine your desires here as you live your life on this planet. The moment you launch a desire, your higher self communicates with you on how to achieve that desire in manifested form. This communication is in the form of emotions. Your higher self is already vibrating with the frequency of your desire (this is for all subjects and desires). When you are also vibrating on the frequency of your desire, you feel good. That’s because you are in alignment with your higher self. When you are not vibrating on the frequency of your desire, you feel bad, meaning you are out of alignment with your inner being regarding that desire. The discord you feel represents the level of misalignment. The worse you feel, the farther out of alignment you are… the better you feel, the closer to alignment you are. When you feel love, bliss, and joy, you are in full alignment.

The reason this is important is because the law of attraction brings you thoughts, circumstances, events, and people that match the vibration you are emitting. Simply put, when you are in alignment, you are manifesting your desire, when you are out of alignment, you are resisting your desire, and it therefore cannot come to you.

Now you understand why the most important thing you can do is to feel good. If you don’t feel good, find a way to feel good. If you do not know how to feel good, then search this blog for answers to your questions or you can ask me here. And don’t forget to listen to my podcast where I explain the law of attraction and how to apply it for real results in your life!

Oh, and there is one more reason to feel good: Because it feels good!

TB 4: How to Use The Law of Attraction by Understanding Who You Are

June 14, 2018 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

This Think Blissful podcast episode is about how to use the law of attraction by communicating and aligning with your inner self. It’s easier than you think! Press the play icon above.

May I ask if you can help out by sharing this episode if you found it helpful? It would mean a great deal to me. Thank you. If you still have questions about this, leave me a comment below and let’s get your questions answered.

Show Notes

The law of attraction is simpler than you think once you understand who you really are. In this episode I explain the relationship between you and your inner being, and how to align with yourself for speedy manifestation!

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which you will find beneficial.

How to Use The Law of Attraction

Has it been working for you?
Are you still trying to study this?
Learn from my time and efforts

Vibrations attract

The law of attraction says that which is like itself is drawn to itself
What you think about is what you get, whether you want it or not
The trick is to thing about what you want
Become aware of your thoughts
Once you have a desire, the universe goes to work immediately to bring it to you
Your work is to allow it in, and you do that with your thoughts

The mechanics of who you really are

You are a non-physical being (spirit) right now, yet you are also physically present right now as an extension of your source for the purpose of expansion through this physical experience
There are two of you right now… the non-physical and physical you
Your non-physical, your soul, is communicating with the physical you at all times through your feelings
When the physical you is vibrating the same as the non-physical you, you are allowing your desire to come because you are in alignment on any subject
If you are experiencing a negative emotion, it is an indication that you are resisting the flow of source energy (your energy), and thereby you are preventing your desire from coming to you
The key is to be in alignment with the non-physical you
You have to be in alignment with you, and you know that by feeling good
You have heard me say it before, your homework is to feel good, and now you understand it on a deeper level
There is nothing more important than being in alignment with yourself
When a negative thought enters your mind, you must find a way to change your thought… therefore your vibration
Work your way to a better emotion until you are feeling good on the subject
Your inner self is always guiding you to your alignment through your feelings

To Recap

You can learn how to use the law of attraction
Your physical self must get into alignment with your non-physical to attract what you desire
You know you are in alignment when you are feeling good
Your homework is to feel good

Please listen to the podcast for more detail, and post your comments and questions so I can help you to complete clarity!

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TB 2: What is the Law of Attraction?

June 11, 2018 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

In this ThinkBlissful podcast episode, I define the law of attraction, why it is super important for you to know, and how to begin using the law of attraction to attract what you want and desire! Press the play icon above.

If you have a question, please leave a comment below so I can answer it. If you found this episode resonates with you, please share and leave comments… it would mean the world to me. Thank you!

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Although I get right to the point, on the podcast I go into more detail and explain how it works and you to use it.

What is the law of attraction?

It’s a universal law
Like attracts like
It’s the most powerful law in the universe
Everything in your life has been brought to you via the law of attraction
It’s important that you understand how this works so you can take control of your life
The law of attractions has been brought to the masses via the immensely popular movie “The Secret”

Famous people using the law of attraction (to name but a few)

Opera Winfrey
Jim Carrey
Arnold Schwarzenegger
Will Smith

What Makes It Work

Everything is a vibration
Like vibrations attract
Physical matter is mostly space when you break it down… it vibrates
Energy is also vibration
Our thoughts are also vibrations
Matter and energy are interchangeable, proven by Einstein: e=mc²

Your point of attraction is now

Even when you think of the past or of the future, your are still thinking it now
Therefore that vibration, or thought, is your current, in the now, point of attraction

The law of attraction is 100% consistent, just like gravity

You get what you think about AND believe
If you don’t believe it, keep telling it to yourself and you will eventually believe it
Once you believe it, it will manifest in your life

Things we can do right now to make this work

Be keenly aware of your thoughts
You cannot change your thoughts until you are aware of what they are
Stop telling stories of what is, and replace those stories with what you truly want and desire
Stop trying to “be right”
- You can be right or you can be rich
- You can be right or you can be healthy
- You can be right or you can be happy
- You can be right or you can have a great relationship
- You can be right or you can _________________

Dreaming

Daydreaming can be healthy for you
This may seem like a paradox
Dream of what you want… be in it… feel the emotion… feel your senses

In Summary

The law of attraction states that like things attract like things
Stop tell stories of what is
Stop trying to be right
Daydream out loud
Tell the story the way you want it to be
Think from your dream, not of it

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