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TB 27: Signs From The Universe

May 17, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

The universe is constantly providing us with signs. In this episode, I will clarify what that actually means, and show you the source of these signs. It may not be what you expect! Press the play icon above.

If you have a question, leave a comment below and let’s get it answered. If you liked this episode and found it helpful, please share it. It would mean a lot and you are helping others too. Thank you.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

Signs From The Universe

I received a pretty cool question from a listener
Her name is KC
Her question is a little different from most that I receive because it makes us think about manifestation from a different angle
We often ask how to manifest something we want that we do not have, and therefore we have to pay attention to our vibrational offering – specifically, are we vibrating the joyful anticipation of our desire, or are we vibrating the lack from frustration or disappointment
Today, we are going to approach the law of attraction from what may appear to be a more neutral approach
Here is the letter I received, slightly edited for clarity. Nothing was altered regarding her actual question
This email was part of a dialogue

Thank you so much for answering my questions!! Everything you said made sense.

I do have another question. Two weeks after I wrote you that email, I was reading a discussion board post about signs from the Universe. You can ask the Universe for signs as confirmation. So, I thought, why not, I will try this.

I asked the Universe (that) if I was meant to attract this specific person into my life, to please show me a shovel for yes. If not, and I should leave this (person) alone, to show me black roses as a sign for no. I choose those two items because I don’t see them in my daily life.

I would say about 4 or 5 days later, I see a shovel. Like it was the most normal thing ever. It just appeared.

Here’s my question. I’ve always wondered about signs and asking for them. Would you say I attracted this, or is this truly the Universe speaking and confirming my question.

If you ask for a sign, forget it and get it, was it the Law of Attraction or the Universe talking?

Thank you again Scott!

So was it a more neutral approach?
Perhaps a bit more neutral because the intensity of the awareness of what we do not have was replaced with a “let me test and see” kind of approach
Nonetheless, we still create with our true beliefs
KC manifested the shovel because that is what she wanted to see
This is not to be confused with the manifestation of the relationship
Listen to the podcast for clarity

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TB 26: Are We Both Manifesting Each Other?

May 13, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

We manifest everyone who enters our experience, and they manifest us just the same. Then why haven’t I manifested my perfect mate? In this episode, I go into the process of how people manifest each other and why your results don’t match your desires.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

How Can I Remain Happy And Grateful So I Can Manifest?

Before I get into today’s episode, I want to thank all of you who listen to my podcast.
Today marks a milestone… it’s one year since I launched the ThinkBlissful.com blog (the podcast was launched a month later).
I received an email from a guy who has questions regarding manifesting a relationship, and refers to a former podcast episode (#TB 22) where I answered a question.
I recorded today’s episode without first making notes. I feel more comfortable that way because it’s more natural. As such, I do not have detailed notes here today. I provided the letter below.
Listen to the podcast to hear what I have to say. If you prefer that I make detailed show notes, please let me know in the comments below.
Here’s the letter I received…

Subject: Hi!!! Law of Attraction

Hi!! This article really resonated with me and I’m so happy it was written just two months ago. When you state this: “The short answer is, you already manifested him, that is why he entered your experience.”, what do you mean?

If we manifested someone we haven’t even met, nor have talked to, but notice them, and are actively trying to manifest them, then why cant we manifest them to notice us and manifest a relationship with them?

I hope I’m making sense!

Also, I was watching a video on YouTube about manifesting a specific person, and how its normal and natural and something we do daily. I was reading one of the comments, it stated that, “Remember, when we are manifesting a specific person, they are also manifesting us, either unconsciously or consciously.”

So, based off of your comment, is this also what you are saying? Where did you learn that piece of information? 🙂

Sorry for the long winded comment. I noticed a woman come into my experience and noticed things about her that has made me become very interested in knowing her. But she, I don’t think has noticed me. She sees me, but we have never talked. I don’t even know her name at all. I see her in passing.

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TB 24: I’m Frustrated… Why Isn’t It Working?

April 5, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Are you frustrated because you cannot seem to get the law of attraction to work for you? The law of attraction is always working, never falters, and manifestations always match your dominant thoughts. I will clarify why it seems to elude you, and what you can do about it. Press the play icon above to listen.

Did you find this episode helpful? Can I ask that you help out by sharing it? It would mean the world to me. Thank you. If you are still struggling with this, leave me a comment below and let’s get your questions answered.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

I’m Frustrated… Why Isn’t This Working?

Today’s episode is about clarification, and it was inspired by a listener
Several weeks ago, a listener sent me a message to thank me for this podcast
She let me know that, although she always practiced the law of attraction, my podcasts helped her learn how to understand it and apply it better
In an ensuing dialogue, she let me know that the law of attraction has been attracting wonderful results in the areas of health, wealth, and career success… she also let me know that she is ready to meet her soul mate but needs to learn how to apply the law of attraction to relationships
As I read her message, I can identify where her vibration is not congruent with her desire… I’ll review that in just a moment
Before I go into this, I want to point out that the title of this episode begins with “I’m frustrated”… the listener that inspired this episode did not mention whether or not she is frustrated, nor did she ask why it isn’t working
The reason I titled this episode the way I did, is because the subject matter that we are about to review will directly help people who are frustrated as they try to apply the law of attraction without achieving the results they so desire
Getting back to the listener, I’d like to share the message that I received from her earlier this week:

Hi again Scott- I wanted to get some advice from you… I have become aware that my problem is lack and belief specifically for my “husband”. I don’t have this issue of lack and belief in other areas.

I know how to solve lack (I think) and that is to be happy with myself and not dwell on the fact that I don’t have it. I know I have to [be] happy with or without it- do you suggest anything else when it comes to using the law of attraction to attract my husband? And what is it I can do more of to really believe it?

(I am using my vision board as a tool, I end the night and begin the day with what I am grateful for, and I try to daydream and imagine my husband). Maybe I am not doing it enough?

Let me know what you think.

Let’s take a closer look at what she is saying in her letter, and I’ll address each part directly to her.

I have become aware that my problem is lack and belief specifically for my “husband”. I don’t have this issue of lack and belief in other areas.

You are aware that your vibration is one of lack and you are aware that it is most likely caused by your beliefs on the subject. You is on the right track! Specifically, you are aware, and you are working on it.

I know how to solve lack (I think) and that is to be happy with myself and not dwell on the fact that I don’t have it. I know I have to happy with or without it

We don’t solve lack, as your attention to it brings it to you. Furthermore, “not dwelling” is also putting attention on that which you do not desire… we cannot “not dwell” (or exclude) anything in our inclusion based universe… your attention to anything brings it to you, whether you want it or not.

Do you suggest anything else when it comes to using the law of attraction to attract my husband? And what is it I can do more of to really believe it?

It’s good that you recognize you are not quite believing it, and you are seeking ways to move towards that belief.
Believing it is more about believing in the fairy tale.
Try saying “wouldn’t it be nice if_________”.
You will find yourself feeling better, and indication that you have stopped resisting and started attracting your desire.

I am using my vision board as a tool, I end the night and begin the day with what I am grateful for, and I try to daydream and imagine my husband

Let’s dig in here a little too… vision boards are a tool, so make sure you are using it correctly. If not, you are better off not using it at all (or at least for the time being). Vision boards are to be used to help you get into vibrational alignment… if, however, when you look at your board you become aware of what you do not have, then your board is not helping because it is holding you in a pattern of resistance. You will always know if it is helping or hindering by your emotions. If you feel lonely, impatient, or discouraged (or any other negative emotion), then your vision board is not helping because your attention when you look at your vision board is bringing you to a place of lack. But if you feel excited, hopeful, or optimistic (or any other positive emotion), then your vision board is helping you attract your desire.
It is a great habit to end your night and begin your day with thoughts of gratitude. Just be sure that you are feeling positive emotions to be sure your focus is on things you truly are grateful for.
Daydreaming and imagination are also awesome tools for creation and manifestation. Just be aware that there are times where too much detail can hinder your creating. To be clear, generally, the more vivid the detail, the better… as long as it does not induce negative thoughts. It is possible to get so detailed that it may challenge your belief system. Pay attention to your emotions.
The principles of the law of attraction are simple, yet applying them are not always easy… there is a difference between simple and easy
- For example, if someone wanted to lose weight, the formula is simple: eat proper portions, do not eat too late, and exercise daily. Simple yes, but not easy.
- The law of attraction is simple too: whatever you think about and believe will manifest into your experience
The work that we do, and the subject of most of my podcast episodes are about how to become aware of our thoughts, how to direct our thoughts, and how to develop belief
These things can all be accomplished, and once you do, you can and will be, do, or have anything you desire
Some things are easier for us to believe, based on our experiences in life
Some things are easier to focus on
This listener has given us an example of both
For instance, she set out on a path to create her desired level of health and wealth. She made a decision, and she was not bogged down by negative beliefs in these areas, rendering them easier… and she would have known that by her emotions. I gather she was feeling hopeful, or some other positive emotion (whether stronger or weaker) as she tackled her objectives. Her belief was there.
The difference between want and need
In a previous email, she stated:

“I have proven to myself that it [the law of attraction] works, but I need to learn how to now apply it to relationships”

Her choice of words was not an arbitrary accident…
And by the way, there is no difference in how the law of attraction is applied to relationships vs. anything else… it’s 100% consistent, and works the same way for everything
Her vibration on the subject of relationships is one of lack, and the law of attraction is bringing her more of what she is vibrating – lack
There is a huge difference between a “want” and a “need”
Let me give you an example of how important this is
This can apply to anything…
Let’s hypothetically look at two people who set out to learn to play guitar
Person 1 decides to learn to play guitar and can see himself on stage entertaining people
Person 2 decides to learn to play guitar because it’s “cool” to be a guitar player
Person 1 wants to play guitar, where person 2 needs to play… please don’t pick apart my choice of example here, you may be thinking that person 2 doesn’t need to play, but when you look deeper, the need to play may actually be the need for validation or acceptance… there’s no real desire to play guitar
Can you see the difference between the vibrations (the point of attraction) of these two people?
Person 1 wants to read guitar magazines, go to music stores, and practice playing
Person 2 has no desire for any of these things, not eve even to practice… it’s more of a chore
The difference is the excitement in the journey
An unhappy journey cannot lead to a happy end… you must enjoy the process
Person 1 wants to learn guitar and can already see himself as an entertainer
Person 2 wants only to be recognized as a guitar player
Can you imagine if Pablo Picasso did not want to paint, but only wanted to recognized as a painter?
People who are successful in their field have a driving passion
They love what they are doing… sure, they also enjoy the fruits of their passion
When your desire comes from within, everything begins to fall into place easily and begins to manifest quickly
If you are not feeling the passion, you’ll need to work on your belief (yes, there are things you can do to get there)
If you want to be rich, but you have no desire to go through the process of building a career or business, you are just not likely to get there
If you want to be healthy, but you have no desire to take those actions, then you are not likely to get there
If you want to be in a happy relationship, but you have no desire to happy first, then you are not likely to get there
To help your belief and desire grow, think about the pleasures and joys of living your dream… work on that vibration
When you begin to believe it, then you will become inspired… you will really begin to enjoy the thought of becoming!
If you have been wanting to be a great cook, by focusing your thoughts on what that feels like, and getting into alignment, you will soon be inspired to learn to cook and take course, and actually enjoy the process (the journey)

Questions, Comments?

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TB 21: How Do I Get Into Alignment?

January 11, 2019 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Vibrational alignment is the key to deliberate manifestation. This episode was inspired by a question from a listener. In it, I explain what alignment means, how to get aligned, and how to tell when you are aligned. Being in alignment is the key to manifesting anything you desire to be, do, or have. Press the play icon above.

If you have a question, please leave a comment below and let’s get it answered quickly. If you found this episode resonates with you, please share and leave comments… it would mean the world to me. Thank you.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

How Do I Get Into Alignment?

I received a question from a listener, and I’m going to read it to you:

Hi, I want to know how exactly to get my vibration into alignment, I seem to like to keep others happy before myself and put their needs first. Rather than hurt others, I hurt inside myself. Help me.

She is asking one question: How do I get into alignment?
But she is also indirectly asking another: How to I stop hurting myself as I help others?
I will address both, let’s start with “how to get into alignment”

What Is Alignment?

Define alignment…
- Getting into alignment is not some sort of arbitrary balance
- It is specific and simple to do, once you understand who you are
- You are eternal consciousness that can never cease to be
- You exist in the non-physical right now… it’s the greater part of you
- What you know as you is an extension of who you are
- Your existence, your thinking, and your knowing is happening in the non-physical at the same time
- Getting into alignment is thinking in your physical form along the same lines as you are thinking in your non-physical form
- Getting into alignment means getting into alignment with yourself
So how do we do that?
- It’s based on what you are thinking
- Our emotions are our guidance
- Feeling good = alignment
- Feeling bad = out of alignment (resistance)
Be careful because every subject is really two subjects
- Take notice whether you are thinking about your desire or the lack of your desire
- For example, thinking “I want to be slim” vibrates very differently from “I don’t want to be fat”
- There is no exclusion in our inclusion based universe, your attention to anything will bring the essence of it to you
- Thinking “I want to be slim” will bring you a slim body… thinking “I don’t want to be fat” will keep you fat
- How do you know if your thought is on your desire or the lack of your desire? You will feel it in the form of emotion.
Dominant thoughts win: What are you predominantly thinking about?
The law of attraction is simple
- You get what you think about, whether you want it or not
- Thoughts are vibrations
- Like vibrations are attracted to one another
- Events and circumstances begin to unfold to manifest the essence of your thoughts
- You get what you think about, whether you want it or not
The law of attraction is a simple process, but learning to direct your thoughts takes practice like anything else
Belief is the secret sauce
If you don’t believe in what you want, you must find a way to focus your thoughts until you believe them
Once you believe, you will see manifestation begin

Here are Some Tips to Help You Align

You must figure out how to think about what you want, instead of what is
Be aware… are you thinking about your desire, or the lack of your desire?
Think about things you like and enjoy from your past, or how you would prefer it to be
Dream, dream, dream!
Be eager (like a kid)

The Second Question

I’m now going to address her second concern… let me reread that part:

I seem to like to keep others happy before myself and put their needs first. Rather than hurt others, I hurt inside myself. Help me.

She is asking how to stop hurting herself while attempting to help others
We are going to apply what we just talked about regarding alignment
When you are in alignment, you will attract others who are in alignment and influence those who are not
We have all experienced this… we are drawn to happy confident people (in alignment) and avoid those who are grumpy (out of alignment)
You have nothing to offer another human being if you are not in alignment… nobody is going to take advice from that grumpy guy, or even want to hang out with him
When you try to help another when you are not in alignment, you cannot help them, and because you are focusing on their needs instead of your own, you cannot help yourself either… that’s why you hurt inside when you put their needs first
It may seem selfish, but you can only help others when you are first in alignment
Tend to your own vibrational needs – get happy on the subject – then you can influence others through the example of your joy
Remember, like anything else, this will take practice
I promise you, it works… you are not going to become a proficient tennis player the first time you get out onto the court, and in like manner, you will need to practice your deliberate thoughts to get into alignment

Follow up work

I read many books on the subject strengthening my knowledge, understanding, and ultimately my results of the law of attraction
I feel compelled to share it with you, and that’s what this podcast and my blog are all about.
I’d like to share one of the most influential books (for me) with you that can address the subject of alignment much better than I ever could
It’s called “Ask, And it is Given” by Jerry and Esther Hicks
All of their publications are amazing, but I would start with that one
You can find it at ThinkBlissful.com/hicks

In Summary

How to get into alignment starts with understanding what alignment means
We are aligned when the thoughts we are thinking about any given subject are the same as the thoughts of our non-physical inner being. At every moment, we are being guided by our inner being through our emotions.
We know we are aligned when we feel good, and out of alignment when we feel bad
Our emotions are important indicators, that’s why we have them
The law of attraction is simple: you get what you think about, whether you want it or not
Your belief is the secret sauce (think and believe)
To help others, you must first get into alignment (be/get happy)
You may want to read “Ask and It Is Given”, which you can find at ThinkBlissful.com/hicks
Don’t be afraid to dream!

Questions, Comments?

How are you doing on your journey?
Let me know what your questions are
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The Most Important Thing Is That You Feel Good

June 29, 2018 By Scott Gilbert Leave a Comment

Nothing is more important than feeling good. Do you know why? It’s because your feelings are indicators of your vibration. Specifically, your feelings represent the alignment of how your vibration compares with the vibration of your higher self, your inner being, your source.

You determine your desires here as you live your life on this planet. The moment you launch a desire, your higher self communicates with you on how to achieve that desire in manifested form. This communication is in the form of emotions. Your higher self is already vibrating with the frequency of your desire (this is for all subjects and desires). When you are also vibrating on the frequency of your desire, you feel good. That’s because you are in alignment with your higher self. When you are not vibrating on the frequency of your desire, you feel bad, meaning you are out of alignment with your inner being regarding that desire. The discord you feel represents the level of misalignment. The worse you feel, the farther out of alignment you are… the better you feel, the closer to alignment you are. When you feel love, bliss, and joy, you are in full alignment.

The reason this is important is because the law of attraction brings you thoughts, circumstances, events, and people that match the vibration you are emitting. Simply put, when you are in alignment, you are manifesting your desire, when you are out of alignment, you are resisting your desire, and it therefore cannot come to you.

Now you understand why the most important thing you can do is to feel good. If you don’t feel good, find a way to feel good. If you do not know how to feel good, then search this blog for answers to your questions or you can ask me here. And don’t forget to listen to my podcast where I explain the law of attraction and how to apply it for real results in your life!

Oh, and there is one more reason to feel good: Because it feels good!