What should you do about a deteriorating relationship? Do you try to save it or do you let it go? In this episode we dive into love-interest relationships and the role the law of attraction plays between both partners. Press the play icon above.
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Can I save the relationship or should I let him go?
- Welcome to the Think Blissful blog and podcast, where we simplify the law of attraction!
- Today we address a question from a listener about what to do about a deteriorating relationship.
- This question came in from Mays.
- I’m going to read her letter in full so you have complete context.
- I’ll then address each part of her letter as it applies to the law of attraction.
- Please note that I made some minor grammatical edits to her letter for clarity.
- Here is Mays’ letter…
Breakup and Heartache
Hi Scott,
I have been in a four-year relationship. We have been living together for 3 years. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. We were very close and connected up until the miscarriage. [Even then] our love grew stronger and we connected even more post miscarriage, until I had to tend to my sister who was in depression because of her separation with her husband. I was very fragile and lost sight of what I wanted and needed. I began to question our relationship.
I was [now] 5 years older, and have been working for 10 years, [and] he has yet to finish his thesis to start working. We were able to live a comfortable life together. We got through the tough time and he began focusing on finishing off his doctorate thesis. In the meantime, we disconnected. I didn’t feel like I was priority to him and we didn’t work at the relationship. We kept waiting for his defense to deal with us and work through our issues.
I have had many questions in my head wondering if we are a good team and if we can be happy together because it didn’t seem like we were building a life together.
He finished his thesis this past November. We tried to reconnect but of course that takes time. I am afraid that we let it go for too long. We are easily irritated by each other. We get in some small arguments or have miscommunication.
I love him and I believe he does [love me] too, but I am afraid it might not be enough. I feel him distanced.
We reevaluated our relationship in March. I want to work through our issues and stay together and his doubts seem too big to work through any issues. Two days, he said that he’s not able to commit to me with the doubts he has. He’s not certain that we can reconnect.
I am devastated and heartbroken. I am sad that he has arrived to that place and that we can’t work it out.
I was wondering if you could guide me in how to move on and let him go. I am struggling to accept that.
I am afraid that my thoughts and vibrations broke us up and led him to give up on us. What can I do? Can I still save the relationship or should I just let him go? How can I let him go?
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- In the audio version of this episode, I go into detail that regarding each part of her letter and how the law of attraction fits in.
- Please listen to the podcast for the complete discussion – I don’t have a proper transcription.
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