TB 22: How Do I Manifest A Specific Person

Relationships are one of those amazing gifts from the universe, yet a great relationship can seem elusive. In actuality, you have more control of creating your perfect relationship than you may think you have. This episode explores the creation of your desired mate, how to get exactly what you want, and the one thing you cannot control.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

How Do I Manifest A Specific Person?

I received a question from a listener, and I’m going to read it to you:

Manifesting love

Hi Scott, I have had success in the past manifesting love and have recently begun the journey again as the past relationship did not work out. I still had a lot of lessons to learn about what I wanted last time. Now that I have had time to heed those lessons and get my self into alignment I have a question that I think you will be able to answer. After listening to your podcasts it left me thinking… This time around I am manifesting love with a specific person, but my query is what if I am in alignment but he is not? If he is in a different space to me (spiritually) will he still be able to feel the heart energy I am sending him if he is not in alignment?

Any other tips you can suggest for manifesting a specific person would be welcome. Thanks so much. Sending you light and love.

-K.

Thank you for your question “K”. I am going to call you K because I do not know if it is ok with you, to use your name.
I will answer your question, but before I do I would like to address something you said.
You mentioned that you had success in the past, BUT that relationship did not work out.
I want to shed some light on relationships that do not work out.
Your desires are always evolving. People tend to believe that once they find the perfect mate, all is good and nothing should change.
That’s not true. It’s like finding the perfect house, then after living there a while, your desires evolved and now you want more closet space, or more land, or whatever.
This is normal, this is spiritual expansion.
The contrast of life’s experience leads to new desires… in other words, by realizing you don’t have enough room for your things, you have a new desire or a new house with lots more closet space.
Does that make sense?
It would be false to believe that relationships are different. We may want to believe that human interaction should be held on a different plane, however, from a spiritual perspective, desires are still desires… and we know this is true because there are two people in the relationship, and both have evolving desires that may or may not coincide.
I am saying that it is ok for a relationship to drift apart.
I am not saying that it is what you want to happen, nor am I saying that a relationship should not be treated as special (it should)… I am just saying “don’t beat yourself up” if it does not work out. Nether of you should – even if one of you still wants it.
I know I did not answer your question yet, but I wanted to clarify that point for two reasons.
One, others who are listening may benefit from hearing that; and two, it is important for you to understand as you move into your next relationship.
It explains your recognition when you said “I still had a lot of lessons to learn about what I wanted last time”. I just want to be sure you realize that you will always be learning what you want, because you are always evolving. That is the spiritual side of us which we cannot stop. And that is a good thing, because our continuous evolvement is the very expansion of the universe.

Your Question

So now on to your question.
Your question is, as you manifest love with a specific person, what happens if you are in alignment, and he is not?
The short answer is, you already manifested him, that is why he entered your experience.
Now, you did not go into detail about where your relationship with him is. I am assuming that it is one sided at this time… meaning that you are aware of him, and you want to pursue him as a love interest, but you are not there yet. I am not clear whether or not he is aware of your desire.
If you are sending him heart energy, he will receive it, but that does not mean he is in a place to notice it or accept it. We are always receiving inspiration and ideas, which are forms of energy coming to us, but we often don’t pay attention unless we are “looking” for it, or if we have made ourselves keenly aware of the energy around us.
If it were an object like a dress that you wanted, it would gently enter your experience. That’s great, but if it were a specific dress that belonged, say, to someone you know, and you wanted it, then you are giving the universe a more complex path. If you stay in alignment long enough with enough emotion, it will still come to you. You always get the essence of what you vibrate, and if your vibrational instructions (so to speak) are very specific, it can take a very long time, if within your lifetime.
This works the same with manifesting people. If you seek the perfect mate, the universe will deliver an exact match to the essence of your vibration. However, if you seek a specific mate, it can also take time. Unlike with an object, there is another variable that affects the outcome with a person… and that is because that person is also thinking and manifesting. You have no control over that.
Generally speaking, it is not a good idea to attempt to attract someone who is out of alignment. You’d be thwarting the power of the universe, instead of harnessing it.
With that said, it is possible that this man is not out of alignment. Do you know for sure his desire and his state of resistance to that desire? Just because he is unaware of you, does not mean he is out of alignment.
Most people are consciously unaware of the law of attraction, yet they still manifested everything that is part of their lives (that includes the things they want as well as those they do not want).
The law of attraction is a natural process used by everyone, yet once you are aware of this law and how it works, you can gain control of your life and all of your desires.
So, if this man is out of alignment, I would suggest you pay him no attention, vibrationally or otherwise.
Tend to your own vibration, and he may very well enter your experience.
Do keep in mind that you said that in the past you manifested love. That relationship was a match to the essence of your desire. Your new quest for a specific person may have come from the evolution of your desires on a mate. Just know that your vibration and desires have evolved, and any new manifested love interest will be a match to your current, evolved, vibration.

Your Additional Question

You asked if there are any other tips I can provide for manifesting a specific person.
The best tip I can give for manifesting another person, is to not need him (or her)
That may sound counter-intuitive, but when you want something, and you want it bad (good!), then your vibration is one of pure desire.
When you need the object of your desire, your vibration is one of lack.
The very need will prevent the manifestation from happening by emitting a vibration of lack, and you will continue to push away, or resist that which you desire.
When you are in a state of pure desire, the universe must yield to you the manifestation of that desire.
You will know when you are in a state of desire because your state of vibration is always indicated, in the moment, by your emotions.
When you feel excited, eager, or in anticipation, you are in alignment with the desire.
If you feel frustrated, ignored, or doubtful, you are out of alignment with your desire.
Just remember that specific people may not be in your sphere of manifestation because you cannot control (ever) their thoughts, thus their manifestations.
In other words, don’t get too hung up on one person. Instead, think about all that you want and adore in that person, and imagine yourself in a relationship with someone like that. Don’t go into detail about who that person is, and the universe will bring to you that perfect mate.
It may or may not be that specific person, but you will be happy nonetheless.
When you are in alignment with your own desires, it will be evident in your complete happiness and confidence in yourself regarding that desire.
Others can see this in you, and that state of happiness is very attractive. When you are in a state of lack (out of alignment), that can also be felt or observed by others… and it is not attractive – it looks more like neediness.
You must trust this process. The laws of the universe are consistent.

In Summary

Your desires are always evolving, and you should never consider a relationship that does not work out as a failure… instead, you have evolved.
You can manifest anything you want to have, but if you are too specific, it can take way too long for your own liking.
Manifesting a specific person is not in your full control, because you cannot control another person’s thoughts.
It is better to be clear with yourself what you want in a mate, what your desires have evolved to.
When you are in alignment on the thoughts of your desired love interest, your matching love interest will come into your experience.
And lastly, I want to thank you “K”, for sending me “light and love”… I appreciate it, and I appreciate you!

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Scott is the founder of two blogs and an online store: Think Blissful, a blog and podcast about the Law of Attraction and how to manifest your every desire; Scott's Money Machines, a blog about success, money, and business; and Crazy Silly, a store featuring products all designed by Scott. In this blog Scott simplifies the Law of Attraction so you can manifest love, health, and abundance into your life and achieve success and true happiness.