TB 28: My Relationship Is Complicated And I Don’t Know What To Do

Are you in a complicated relationship? Do feel stuck? Are you aware of your desires, but can’t seem to make them come true? If any of this rings true for you, you are going to want to listen to this episode where I discuss what’s at the core and what to do about it.

Show Notes

Here is an outline of what you can expect from this podcast episode. Listen to the podcast if you can, as I go into more detail which will help you.

My Relationship Is Complicated And I Don’t Know What To Do

Another great question from a listener
She is asking how to fix a relationship, but after reading her letter I realize that it goes much deeper and is more complicated
I always appreciate your questions, and so many ask about relationships
Every question is surrounded by a different circumstance, so please keep those relationship questions coming in (as well as for any other subject)
In the podcast, I read the letter (below) and go into detail regarding each paragraph, thought, comment, and question
Note that the letter below has been slightly edited for clarity only… no meanings or intentions have been altered
Let’s get into it…

How do I fix my relationship?

Hi Scott!

I am from the Philippines and I love listening to your podcast. I have been doing the law of attraction for so long on and off. On and off because sometimes I stop being aware of my feelings and I only start to realize it when things go against what I want, and then I start to control it back again.

Please, be patient with my message as English is not my first language J. Anyway, it has been easy for me to manifest money and career opportunities, with that, it’s so easy for me to generate the frequency I wanted in that part of my life.

However, when it comes to relationships, It has become a little bit of a struggle since it involves emotions connected to the person I am dealing with.

For example: my current relationship is with a guy who is very pessimistic and completely different from me. We have a child together so I consider him as my family or husband. But he himself doesn’t show that way to me. We stay in separate rooms, which is not my choice. And when he doesn’t want to be around me, he locks himself in his room. And when he feels like going out, he would (go out) without even telling me where he is going, or (even) if he is going out… I will just see his room empty. He is not supportive to my career, and doesn’t show interest with what I do with my life.

Before listening to your podcast we decided to be separated, but because of my desire to have a happy and complete family, I started recalling all the happy memories we had, (and) after a few days we decided to get back together and try again.

I told myself that I will only focus on the positive things in our relationship. But somehow whenever he does things that I don’t like, it gets hard for me to control my thoughts and emotions towards him. I get disappointed, and I start to question myself if I should really be here.

I know that I love him, and I really want a happy family and actual partner in life, who is supportive, sweet, kind and loves my company. I just hope he can be like that.

Is that possible if I focus on the positive? But how do I stop myself from being disappointed when he does things that I don’t like? And what train of thoughts should I think about when I start to feel self pity toward his treatment towards me?

I know I can’t change the person, but in this case it’s the treatment of the person toward me that I want to change. Please help me figure out what actions I should take for my desire to happen.

I trust that you will read my message and help me out.

More power to you as you have helped so many.

Thank you for you letter
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Scott is the founder of two blogs and an online store: Think Blissful, a blog and podcast about the Law of Attraction and how to manifest your every desire; Scott's Money Machines, a blog about success, money, and business; and Crazy Silly, a store featuring products all designed by Scott. In this blog Scott simplifies the Law of Attraction so you can manifest love, health, and abundance into your life and achieve success and true happiness.